Day 6: Discover the Pleasure of Sound
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Sound is a gateway to our emotions, memories, and moods, making it a powerful tool for enhancing intimacy and connection. From the rhythm of your favorite songs to the soothing tones of nature, sound has the ability to transport us, ground us, or even ignite passion.
Today, we’re joined by guest contributors Aurielle Sayeh and Joe Vela , whose creative journeys highlight the power of sound as a tool for pleasure, connection, and self-expression. Their insights offer inspiration for incorporating sound into your daily life as a meaningful sensory practice.
Ready to feel the music? Dive into today’s challenge to awaken your senses and discover pleasure in a whole new way.
Day 6 Challenge:
Set aside time today to fully immerse yourself in these playlists. Let the music move you—whether it inspires relaxation, connection, or a moment of pure pleasure. Allow yourself to be present and let the rhythms guide your experience.
Playlists to Explore:
Sex Jams Vol. 2 by Joe Vella
Pleasure Principle by Aurielle Sayeh
Treat this as a sensory pleasure practice:
Set the stage. Find a comfortable spot where you can fully focus on the music.
Press play. Listen to one or both playlists and let the sound wash over you.
Tune in. Notice how the beats, melodies, and lyrics make you feel.
After listening, take a few moments to reflect. Journal about your experience using these prompts:
What emotions or memories surfaced while listening?
Did the music make you feel more connected to yourself, your environment, or someone else?
How can you incorporate sound as a pleasure practice in your daily life?
Why Sound Matters
Sound has the power to influence our mood, reduce stress, and enhance self-awareness. Research shows that music can stimulate dopamine release—the same feel-good neurotransmitter activated by intimacy and connection. It’s not just about hearing; it’s about listening with intention, allowing sound to touch parts of us that words cannot:
“Performing music brings me unparalleled pleasure. There’s a powerful exchange of energy between performer and audience that’s impossible to replicate. Music transcends boundaries and brings people together, creating a sense of community through sound.”
Reflection allows us to honor both aspects: the autonomy of our personal pleasure and the joy of shared experiences.
Joe Vela: Connecting Through Sound and Creativity
Joe Vela’s journey from touring musician to entrepreneur highlights his passion for connection, creativity, and joy. Reflecting on his transition into the pleasure industry, Joe shares:
“I entered the sex toy industry somewhat unexpectedly. As a touring musician, I needed a way to make money between shows, and the idea to create the eggplant emoji vibrator came to me—thus Emojibator was born. It felt natural—creative, silly, and impactful. But music has always been my first love, the passion that sets the tone for how I want to connect with the world.”
As a DJ, Joe finds joy in curating playlists that heighten emotion and set the mood:
“Ultimately, whether I’m creating music, performing, or working at my career, my purpose remains the same: to bring pleasure and connection to people.”
Aurielle Sayeh: Sensory Awareness and Self-Expression
Aurielle Sayeh’s creative journey celebrates authenticity, storytelling, and transformation. She prioritizes pleasure by living softly and making space for creativity:
“I find pleasure in living a softer life—controlling my own days, reading, cooking, dreaming. It’s about slowing down and finding beauty in the little things.”
On cultivating sensory awareness, Auri reflects:
“Sound, touch, and taste are my favorite sensory experiences—whether it’s curating music, cooking, or making juice. Getting my hands dirty with fresh beets this morning was so satisfying. It’s about tuning into those moments of presence.”
How to Practice Sensory Awareness Through Sound
Make a ritual . Light a candle, put on headphones, and let the music take center stage.
Explore with sound. Explore different genres or tones to match your mood or shift your energy.
Tune into your body. Notice sensations—tingles, tension release, or shifts in breathing—as you listen.
Why It Works
By tuning into sound, you’re creating space to feel more present and attuned to your inner world. This heightened awareness can ripple into your relationships, helping you communicate with greater empathy and understanding. Plus, it’s fun!
Stay tuned for exclusive interviews with our featured DJs [names coming soon!] as they share insights into their creative process and the role of music in finding pleasure and connection.
Tuning into sound helps you feel more present and connected to your inner world. This heightened awareness can deepen empathy and understanding in your relationships—while adding an element of fun.
“Curating music or blending tracks allows me to heighten emotion and create shared experiences. It’s a form of connection that reminds me of the power sound has to shape how we feel.”
The Takeaway
Pleasure can be found in the simplest things—like the sound of a beautiful playlist. Today, let the music guide you into a space of reflection, joy, and connection.
What’s one way you’ll let sound bring you pleasure today? Share your reflections with us on Instagram, and let’s create a symphony of connection, joy, and pleasure together.
Pleasure often lies in life’s simplest moments—like losing yourself in a beautiful playlist. Today, let music guide you to a place of reflection, joy, and connection.
How will you let sound bring you pleasure today? Share your reflections with us on Instagram, and let’s create a harmony of connection, joy, and pleasure together.
Want More from Our Guest Contributors?
Follow Joe Vela on Instagram @jvbeats to discover her latest projects and explore his playlists on Spotify
- Follow Aurielle Sayeh on Instagram @auriellesayeh to explore her creative world and check out her profile on Mixcloud